Specializing in Compassionate Elder Mediation
Elder Mediation (sometimes referred to as intergenerational mediation) is a cooperative and voluntary process in which a professionally trained mediator helps facilitate discussions that assist family members in addressing conflict related to age-related issues such as caregiving for an aging loved one, living arrangements, and adult sibling conflict, among many others.
This form of mediation often involves many people such as family members, friends, caregivers, and other service providers. The role of the mediator is to assist the parties to come to a mutually agreeable resolution to the conflict.
There are a number of reasons to consider elder mediation, including the following:
Julie Ralhan cares deeply about the wellbeing of families, and seeks to use her skills, diligence, and compassion to help people meaningfully resolve conflict.
Julie obtained a Bachelor of Arts in Economics from York University in 1999, a Bachelor of Laws from Osgoode Hall Law School in 2002, and was called to the Bar of Ontario in 2003. Julie then practiced family law with a focus on child-related issues for two decades in various contexts, including as legal counsel for the Children’s Aid Society of Hamilton, and subsequently as a lawyer for parents, grandparents and other family members in Children’s Aid Society cases. Julie also obtained a (part-time) Master of Laws in family law from Osgoode Hall Law School in 2009, while working full-time as legal counsel for the Hamilton Children’s Aid Society. Additionally, Julie has had the opportunity to engage in special projects and contractual arrangements during her time as a lawyer, including being outside counsel to the Motherisk Commission, which was established by the Ontario government to examine the reliability of drug testing in child protection cases; and as contract counsel for the Law Society of Ontario, where she dealt with professionalism issues pertaining to family and child protection files.
During and subsequent to the pandemic, Julie became increasingly interested in various issues affecting seniors, including the issue of how to help families in the midst of conflict related to the care of an aging loved one. Julie engaged in the Ontario Association for Family Mediation’s (OAFM) training program in intergenerational (elder) mediation. Julie holds accreditation through OAFM as an intergenerational (elder) mediator. Julie is also accredited as a family mediator through OAFM.
Julie’s approach and philosophy as a mediator is to recognize that family conflict can be profoundly painful for all involved. Family members may be experiencing stress, grief and fear in relation to the issues with which they are being confronted. Historical family dynamics and grievances may also exacerbate the conflict. Julie believes in speaking the truth with dignity, identifying common goals, and equipping and encouraging families to find new ways to work through conflict.
Julie is now offering elder mediation focused on helping families resolve elder care conflict. For further information regarding how to retain Julie as a mediator, please email julieralhan@elevatedmediation.com or call 647-819-5348.
Please note: A mediator (even if trained as a lawyer) does not provide any legal advice to the parties, as the mediator is a neutral and impartial facilitator. Parties are encouraged to obtain independent legal advice at any point prior to and/or during the mediation process regarding any legal questions they may have. Elevated Mediation/Julie Ralhan focuses exclusively on providing mediation services (not legal services). If you are seeking a lawyer/need legal advice, the following is a list of possible resources:
Advocacy Center for the Elderly
Phone: 416-598-2656
Website: https://www.acelaw.ca/about/legal-information-services/
Law Society Referral Service
Phone: 1-855-947-5255
Website: https://lsrs.lso.ca/lsrs/welcome
Legal Aid Ontario
Phone: 1-800-668-8258
Website: https://www.legalaid.on.ca/
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